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2 Bumps

Who's fault is it?

If you SO cheets on you do you blame them or the person they cheeted with?

I know women who got mad at "the other woman" but stayed with the man.

Do you agree with this?


Asked by Anon344 at 10:30 PM on Feb. 7, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (21)
  • ive been cheated on and ive been the other woman... i had a relationship with my ex while he was seeing someone else... she found out and i became a horrible person while he was completely innocent... she married him and half the town still hates me lol.
    i think it's the cheater's fault. when a man commits to me and then betrays me, that's his fault, not some other girl's. she didn't promise to be faithful to me.

    Answer by shilohsmama425 at 10:57 PM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • I blame both of them. I would make both of them pay for the pain and mental anguish it has caused.

    Answer by ready4baby2011 at 10:32 PM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • If she didn't know he was married, just him. If she knew then blame both of them. He damn sure doesn't get a free pass either way!!

    Answer by kmath at 10:34 PM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • BOTH!! I think the husband is just at fault then the other woman. He's the one married to me, not her! It's both of their fault

    Answer by alyssamal at 10:33 PM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • IF she knows he has an s/o and does it anyway they BOTH are at fault as far I am concerened.

    Answer by AmI88 at 10:33 PM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • He is mostly at fault! He is the one who's supposed to love you and not hurt you. She, (if she knew he was married) is just plain selfish and doesn't care. She has no emotional attachment to you.

    Answer by etexmom at 12:58 AM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • HIM !!!!!!!!!!!!

    He knows he is married, or in a relationship.

    They can always lie to her ?

    He knows, where his home is....F**K HIM!!!!!!

    Tell him to go live with her !!!!!!!

    Answer by SissyAnn141 at 2:52 AM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • cheats*

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:31 PM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • To tell the truth i would be mad at both of them the women might not even knoe hes married

    Answer by CanYouHelpMe10 at 10:34 PM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • blame him

    Answer by letstalk747 at 10:35 PM on Feb. 7, 2011

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