My husband went away on work for three weeks things were really bad between us and we were fighting constantly. I got so upset I threatened divorce and left our house (for help because I had just had a baby three weeks before he left and also had two others under 3) I said a lot of mean and degrading things to him during our conversations and sometimes wouldnt even pick up his calls I was so angry. He ended up sleeping with a stripper out there. He said thats all it was, they didnt even kiss or anything they just did THAT (but THATS worse than ANYTHING!) and he said the second time that he did stop because he felt awful but that he was so hurt & confused & he thought he had nothing to come home to. He said after he did it I was calling him treating him differently and he was terrified to say anything because he didnt want to lose me.
needless to say its all out in the open... I dont know what to do. Please dont bash me but I dont know whether to stay or go... =( its been 8 years we've been together and hes never cheated on me.. I just dont know what to do. Any advice please? If you only have mean things PLEASE dont tell me them, im already emotionally a mess i dont want more reasons to hate him.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:34 AM on Feb. 8, 2011 in Relationships
It sounds like you can work through this
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