We've been married 4 years, and have a 3 year old daughter. He loves us to death and does what he can to make us happy. He's a good provider and tells me that I'm beautiful. We don't argue or fight. We play video and board games together and eat dinner as a family at the table every night.
Sounds great, doesn't it?
The problem is, I don't have any feelings for him. He doesn't turn me on, at all. I can't stand him kissing or touching me. Sex is... well, it sucks. I feel more like his roommate than his wife. There just isn't a connection. There never was. I'm not even sure why we got married in the first place. It makes me horribly depressed thinking that this is all there is.
Is there a way to find a spark? Or are my only options to live the rest of my life like this, or divorce?
Asked by Anonymous at 1:24 PM on Feb. 8, 2011 in Relationships
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