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I've never reached the Big O during intercourse :l adult content

Alright ladies, so I've never told anyone, but I've never actually reached orgasm during intercourse. I thought I was alone but then I looked it up and it's apparently pretty common.

So, who else hasn't? Cause I still can't believe that there are other women out there who haven't LOL I'm about to through myself a pity party.

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:33 PM on Feb. 8, 2011 in Just for Fun

Answers (16)
  • I have never reached orgasm from intercourse alone. I have to do some clit rubbing if i wanna get off. :( I feel your pain.....

    Answer by logansmama at 3:36 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • Me.. I am part of that sad sad selective few - :(

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 3:37 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • I'm sorry..that sucks! But you're not alone, sooo many others can't have a big O. My first was at 16, lol, and they've only gotten more incredible since. Hope you have one some day!

    Answer by -AJ at 3:37 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • Never through intercourse, just oral sex.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:39 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • Ive heard that masterbation helps with this problem...

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:39 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • I have that problem too. It almost feels like something is gonna happen and then nothing!!! But my SO makes up for it in other ways.


    Answer by EttaMay at 3:40 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • im the same way! i have to have my clit rubbed along with some nipple sucking and then maybe if its all just right ill get a big O but its hard! most of the time i just do things myself or have my hubby do oral if im in the mood! my hubby still doesnt know i fake it! lol!

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:44 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • I know when I'm thinking about it too much instead of just going along with things I have a problem having one.

    Answer by kadensmom04 at 4:01 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • I used to have that problem too. I don't always have an orgasm with intercourse but will have a few with foreplay before intercourse,

    Answer by kim0167 at 4:36 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • I've never reached orgasm during intercourse, but I have insane orgasms during oral sex. I would like to orgasm during intercourse, though, but I don't know what the secret is.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:37 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

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