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How do you give a BJ? adult content

I am 27 and have never done it. My ex never wanted me to do it and I am now single and out in the dating world again and have 1 guy talking about it, yet I have no idea what to do!! I am afraid of gagging or hurting him or just plain not doing it right.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:57 PM on Feb. 8, 2011 in Relationships

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  • i wouldnt do it unless your comfortable with the person
    and start out slow so that you dont choke or bite or anything
    good luck
    jesslovesyou08

    Answer by jesslovesyou08 at 10:00 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • could watch some porn to get idea
    look at different ones, some will give different ideas

    if you do not want to do it - don't
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 10:03 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • There is a book called Oral Sex He'll Never Forget that could be helpful for you.
    http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Oral-Sex-Hell-Never-Forget/Sonia-Borg/e/9781592333851/?itm=1&USRI=oral+sex
    MichaelsMom330

    Answer by MichaelsMom330 at 10:04 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • I wouldn't do it unless I was comfortable. I don't own any porns nor is there anywhere here to get one......i live in a very small town. I am just curious to see what it is all about and want to please my man....
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 10:07 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • theres free porn on the web.....xhamster.com
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:12 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • I would not do a BJ for someone i was barely dating...We were together a few years before i would...
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:23 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • I am not planning on doing it any time soon. Was just looking for some input.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 10:28 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • i get between his legs and do what he likes, i like to make noises and hum when i'm down there bc it really amps it up. also if you lick the frenilum (sp?) it's really sensitive. and i know a pp said to wait, but a think a few years is pushing it. that's just me.
    angevil53

    Answer by angevil53 at 11:39 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

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