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Is it odd for a girl to ask a guy out?

I am new in the dating world again (was with my ex for 10 years and am just starting to date again). Is it odd that I want to ask someone out or should I wait for them?

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Asked by Mommyto2LilMen at 10:00 PM on Feb. 8, 2011 in Relationships

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  • hell no. i ALWAYS asked guys out.

    Answer by VelvetCat at 10:01 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • no but i would flirt and wait a little while to see if he asks you out if not then ask him

    Answer by jesslovesyou08 at 10:02 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • It is my belief that if you want a guy to really want you, then you wait and let him do the pursuing. That's the way it was done when I was looking for a husband, and marriages seem to have lasted a lot longer when it was done that way. My husband and I just celebrated our 46th wedding anniversary, and he is still pursuing me!!

    Answer by NannyB. at 10:03 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • Certainly not odd. My son had more women ask him out than he ever asked out.

    Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 10:04 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • Hell no , i asked my current boyfriend out :) found out he was going to ask me out a couple days later but i beat him too it :) :D

    Answer by zackarysmommy at 10:05 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • No! I say if you feel there's a mutual interest go for it!!!

    Answer by LuvmyFam6 at 10:10 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • Go ask him out. Hell, I proposed to my dh.

    Answer by DYNARAH at 10:12 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • Go for it! I did w/ mine and now it's been 7 yrs. together.

    Answer by pswiley at 10:13 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

  • THanks everyone!!

    Comment by Mommyto2LilMen (original poster) at 10:13 PM on Feb. 8, 2011


    Answer by smiley745 at 10:30 PM on Feb. 8, 2011

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