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If your dh wanted a threesome with either a man or woman, would you do it to satisfy his fantasy more than your own or would you just say no if it was not that important to you.

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:05 PM on Feb. 9, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I would say no

    Answer by Misteh at 1:06 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • I think it depends on your comfort level. If you are comfortable with a threesome then do it if you aren't explain to your dh why you are uncomfortable with it. He can't expect you to do something that you are not comfortable with

    Answer by MChildressDem at 1:08 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • no 3sums whatsoever. maybe i am old fashioned.......

    Answer by gwen20 at 1:15 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • Do not do a threesome. It almost always ends badly. Either he gets jealous (he'll get jealous of the man or woman..really) or you'll get jealous of the man or woman. If he really wants a threesome and you're not into it than try this:
    Take a full length mirror and start touching yourself or using toys so he gets a good visual. He'll get the visual of two women from different angles and you can spare yourself the threesome. I hope this helps. good luck.

    Answer by Bugzmomma at 1:30 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • 3 sums are bad news dont even do it

    Answer by cnoble927 at 1:33 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • had one once upon a time in my 20s and I still wish I'd never had.

    Answer by ItsMe89 at 1:39 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • Nope, I tell him to go to hell.

    Answer by HKing01 at 2:16 PM on Feb. 9, 2011


    Answer by AliciaLamoreux at 3:17 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • No.. If I wanted to have multiple partners, either all at one time or not.. lol... I would not be married. My husband knows and understands this.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 3:34 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • we have had a threesome before. but only with another woman because he "doesn't want another wiener near me"

    Answer by BrandonBearsMom at 6:22 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

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