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Am I the only one who hasn't had a BIG O during sex with my husband?

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Asked by Panda333 at 7:32 PM on Feb. 9, 2011 in Relationships

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  • No. I have never had one. Not with my husband not with anyone.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 7:33 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • me either! Only with myself! What's up with that?

    Comment by Panda333 (original poster) at 7:34 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • I've only had a few.

    Answer by mommy_jules at 7:34 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • Holy crap!  I'd try some different positions, foreplay, etc!  I couldn't imagine not having the big O that's not self induced! Hugs ladies!  And the box of wine is on me!  ;)


    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 7:34 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • I have only had orgasms with my hubby. Foreplay really helps me get there several times. If i get one before sex than its easier for me to have several during intercourse.

    Answer by True_Gator_77 at 7:35 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • i have them everytime with my hubby..he makes sure i do. we may not have as often as i like but he makes sure i get mine when we do. Before him i didnt orgasm much with ex may have made me once or twice..but nothing to get excited over.

    Answer by shay1130 at 7:49 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • oops..that was meant to say.."we may not have sex as often as i like" sorry my keys are getting stuck

    Answer by shay1130 at 7:50 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • Nope, I have never had sexwith your husband. :) Sorry, just the way it was worded hit me funny. It is hard to imagine having sex regularly and not having the Big O. Foreplay, toys, lube, new position. Lots of patiience and time to relax. Think about what it is you do to yourself...and work towards that with hubby.

    Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 7:51 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • im sorryI always do


    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:00 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

  • When I was married I didn't know what the big O was til I had sex with another man. I was very surprised When it happened .

    Answer by stitchintime at 8:13 PM on Feb. 9, 2011

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