My husband is always a grouch and I guess over the last 6 years I just learned to live with it ...but tonight I just dont know what to do anymore.
For the last 2 weeks I have had bad back and pelvic pain, then yesterday i woke up so dizzy that I could barely stand... I made it through the day and planned on going to the ER when he got home from work ( so he could drive me there and I could have my grandma watch the kids) ... of course he gets home and is mad that I didnt clean and then I tell him about how awful I feel, and he refuses to take me to the ER because " he will be to tired for work the following day" -- keeping in mind this was barely 5pm and he doesnt have to leave for work until 7:30 the next day ( he doesnt even go to bed until 11) ....I was so mad but at that point I was feeling better ...
So today when i got up the dizziness returned so I called and made an appt. at the local Drs. ...
My mom got off work early and she takes me ( my grandma watches the kids) ... we are waiting for the dr and he texts my mom ( I dont have my own cell ) and asks " why the hell I didnt call him" I tel her to write back because he doesnt get service there and I was going to be home before he gets home anyways... He then goes on saying he has "shit to do" so my mom texts him back to tell him the kids and i will just go stay at her house and he replies " well tell that lazy ass she should have went earlier, now I have to get the kids supper, she needs to get her priorities straight" ..... My mom was so mas she could barely talk ..I was mad, hurt and embarrassed ( that he would say those things about me to my MOM ) ....
I come home and he still mad, I ignore him and then take the kids to bed... i wait until he goes to bed and then I get up so I can clean ( I have to go get more tests and ultrasounds done tomorrow and wont beable to clean that much then) and after I am done I am still too upset to go to bed so I try to get on the computer, and he changed the password... I storm in and make him tell it to me and he says I dont even need to be on the computer, and I can forget about getting one for myself ( I had my own computer, that his friend broke a few weeks ago, so with our income taxes I was going to get one ) .... I am just sooo furious and I just dont know what to do ( if my kids and I do go to my moms, it could only be for a couple days, I have no money to myself, no job, I just do not know what to do )
Oh and not to mention he didnt even ask what I found out at the Dr -- I have a bad infection and a tennis ball cyst on my ovary that they want to surgically remove....
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