If she is under 18, you can force her into counseling.. Whether she will welcome the help is a different story. I would find a counselor, and take her, kicking and screaming if you have to. If she wont listen, take away everything. Phone, computer, camera, her clothes (leave only a few things), and tell her that until she listens, she will live like that. She needs to earn her stuff back.
I wasn't a bad teen. But i was not the best. My mom knew, at that point, she needed to be my mom, not my friend. If i "hated" her for whatever punishment she dealt me back then, I appreciate it so much now. She was willing to risk me resenting her to make sure i knew someone cared, would always care, and do anything to make sure i was safe, even if i thought she was nuts at the time.
Tough love, counseling, the talk, and if you know she is sleeping around, you need to get her on birth control. Don't let her become another teen mom statistic.
at 5:27 PM on Feb. 10, 2011