Maybe my situation is unique. I have some friends from socialist and communistic countries. They are incredibly educated, but lost in snap judgement. At first I had no question about them, and took their word as final. Now after being with them as friends for a while, I have to second guess their statements, not for honesty (because they are being honest), but for confusion. It's like they don't know how to react or respond to spontaneous change. I am being constantly asked about what to do or how to do. It's like I am guiding them through their day-by-day decision making. And the strange part, some of them have been in the U.S. for many years.
Does any one else have this issue? If so, how do you handle this? ~Frustrated
Answer by Bmat at 1:56 PM on Nov. 17, 2008
Answer by evelynwest at 1:11 PM on Nov. 17, 2008