my daughter is 19 and in her 2nd year of college, she has never owned her own car but is responsible and would make payments if she had a loan.
unlike my dh where to him if he pays the bills that means less money for him.
I am not that way bills come first.
anyway since he is out of work until spring we have 2 cars.
my daughter works fulltime at a gas station from 3 pm to 11:30pm, and then walks back to her dorm, in the freezing cold.
Being worried about her I gave her my car until she can find one on her own.
dh does nothing to help the situation just bitches about how theres only one car and it is a problem to him because he likes to be doing his own thing but the kids that are at home need transportation to various activities.
I want my daughter safe, she needs a car, I don't. Well at the moment I don't.
we have our tax money and would like to spend a little getting her a car but he won't allow for that because he has things he wants to buy. He has already blown 1800 on himself!! yet he wants my car back and won't move a muscle to help a college kid in need. Should I hold my ground until he see I'm not going to do what he wants? Should I take some money and go ahead and help her get a loan? I know she would be on time with payments she is more like me, bills come first.
Answer by gemgem at 7:52 AM on Feb. 10, 2011
Answer by Jademom07 at 7:52 AM on Feb. 10, 2011
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Answer by JLS2388 at 3:34 PM on Feb. 10, 2011