My alcoholic bio-mom abandoned me when I was 7, after the years of abuse I went to live with my later to be adopted parents. My Bio never took responsiblity for her behavior, and continued to act like a child even when she got sober at 50yo. She died unexpectedly on Tuesday. My 'mom' who raised me, died 3 years ago. I don't know how to process any of it without her. Somehow I need to figure out if I am mad, sad, or what. I know I have a lot of junk that is coming up now, but I really just want it to go away. So I guess my real question is, what do you do when someone you 'hate' and have 'hated' for most of your life dies. How do I get over it?
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