I'm going to try to make this short, please no bashing. I'm so frustrated right now, I don't know what I'm supposed to do or what to think right now.
My ex and I were together for 5 years. He had immigration issues, I petitioned for him but then found out he was cheating and he started treating me bad so I divorced him and quit the petition.
His family doesn't think he did anything wrong, on the contrary they think the fact that he was deported is my fault and his cousin used to harass me all the time...showing up to my work and sending me rude messages.
Well, that all died down until one of my "best friends," befriended some of his cousins and went over to their families christmas and she started texting me asking me why i didn't like the cousin (the one that was harassing me) telling me how nice and funny she was and blah blah blah. So we got into a fight and stopped talking.
Well now she and my ex's cousins are sending me messages...calling me psycho and all this other crap.
At the same time I'm getting a guilt trip from my ex's mom cause she wants to see the baby...but they are all constantly insulting me and treating me like crap and when I'm around it's always so tense. When he was still here and had visitation rights he barely came to see her and his mom NEVER asked to see the baby...so for the first almost year of her life...his mom had every chance to see the baby but she never did and now that she's gone she's shoving the idea down my throat and I'm just kind of feeling like...no...i don't want to them see her because 1. they had their chance and didn't for a year 2. they treat me so disrespectfully and 3. i'm tired of being the bad person when i didn't do anything wrong!!
what would you do?
Ps. I KNOW I should have thought about all this before getting knocked up by an illegal...and that If i had at least petitioned for him he would have had a chance to be with is daughter...but you don't know the whole story. He never cared about the baby...she was a tool to try to keep me attached to him. But none of that matters, lets just address the issue at hand...please.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:27 PM on Feb. 10, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by momof2cuteboys at 1:29 PM on Feb. 10, 2011
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Answer by myree85 at 2:10 PM on Feb. 10, 2011
If you do let his mother see the child. I would let her know that she has to go to your house. Don't leave her alone with the child.
If keep texting then change your number. If you think you or your daughter is in danger. Then get the police involved.
Answer by HomeAlone45 at 2:18 PM on Feb. 10, 2011
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