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What do you call a guy who......

What do you call a guy who never takes his girlfriend OUT. Like out on a date "out. " He claims he doesn't have money for dates She has offered to foot the bill. They only stay in. Their relationship never sees the light of day. Is this guy for real?.... or is he looking for one thing only???? how does she get him to change his tune without losing him?

ADDED LATER: He is not married and its pretty certain he is the faithful type. He truly does not have extra money for a date. How does she even bring this up? How does she refuse to be just a booty call? At the beginning she stated she owould not be just a booty call. She feels she is just someone to be interim girlfriend.... til he finds someone he is really interested in. How does she peak his interest? She has tried being "busy" and not answering his every call.....but then she fears he will look elsewhere. Help.


Asked by Anonymous at 5:06 PM on Feb. 10, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (14)
  • huh??? maybe she should stop answering his calls and stay busy, if he is really interested in her he'll find the money to take her out, if
    not, she should just move on and find someone else who will show her interest, and take her out and have fun with her. She is making it far to easy for him. She is just being that booty call. She deserves better.

    Answer by stitchintime at 10:44 PM on Feb. 10, 2011

  • someone else.

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 5:25 PM on Feb. 10, 2011

  • He feels he already caught her,no need to spend any money on her

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 5:09 PM on Feb. 10, 2011

  • Cheap

    Answer by zebbiebug at 5:18 PM on Feb. 10, 2011

  • hes boring

    Answer by smiley745 at 5:13 PM on Feb. 10, 2011

  • He wants to hide the fact that he is dating her. He could have another girlfriend or a wife. Or he could just be a cheapskate, loser.

    Answer by tyfry7496 at 5:46 PM on Feb. 10, 2011

  • If she is ok with it. It is ok. Spending time with your S/O is better then him waisting money all the time.

    But if he is really broke, no job type broke. I would never have gotten together with him


    Answer by louise2 at 5:13 PM on Feb. 10, 2011

  • Is his name Jake? Just curious. This sounds exactly like my old roommate! In the 8 months he and his girlfriend were together the only time she got taken to dinner was when he was out of town and my boyfriend and I took her!

    Answer by meandrphoto at 5:19 PM on Feb. 10, 2011

  • undateable

    Answer by gwen20 at 5:25 PM on Feb. 10, 2011

  • If he doesn't want to bring the relationship out in public then he's most likely using her for convenience. Most people who do that are only looking for the convenience girlfriend and some even have someone else on the side. You just need to talk to him and be honest about your feelings. If he doesn't want to change then you're better off leaving him.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 5:36 PM on Feb. 10, 2011