One set of our DD grandparents are more difficult to have a relationship over the past years. But recently they planned this big trip and we were not sure that our DD was ready for a long over night weekend. So we wanted to it be one night instead of 2 nights at their house. When we speak about this with them they bring up how expensive the weekend trip will be and they are not sure they can afford it. So we find them some coupons online and email them the coupons for their weekend. Then they are like okay we can still do the weekend.
I am just confused about why they are saying it will be an expensive trip all of the sudden when they planned it themselves. I am thinking it was because we brought up the 2 night stay. they are currently living in an apartment with their mother and have not spent any real time with their grand child over the past 2 yrs. We are nervous about the situation and were just expressing our concerns. i am at a loss of how to communicate with them, what is really going on with them?
Answer by MrsLeftlane at 10:41 PM on Feb. 10, 2011