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Am I alone?

Is anyone else out there really nervous about conceiving again? I have 2 sons, and my husband and I really would love a 3rd but Im finding myself nervous as heck! Any one else feel the same?

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Asked by ljliammama at 3:29 PM on Nov. 17, 2008 in Trying to Conceive

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  • You're never alone!

    We're not thinking about having another one for a long time, but I'm actually stressed out about when it will happen! I don't want it to happen before we actually start trying, but I hate not knowing when we're going to start! I know the next pregnancy will be completely different, even if it's just because I'm chasing around a little one already.

    Answer by KatieCrandall at 3:51 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

  • Yes, We have 1 DD and have started TTC again so that they'll be close in age...but I'm a little scared about it too (will I have enough time, attention, $$ for two?) I know that we can make it with 2 children but the what if's always pop up.

    Answer by Kimebs at 4:15 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

  • yes my baby is almost 9 months an my bf and i are discussing about trying again soon but my daughter is jealous over me so i don't know how she will act!

    Answer by butterscotch297 at 5:07 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

  • Kimebs~ Thats my exact worry to...Im always "what if'ing"...What if the boys (our sons) get mad. What if I can't work. What if we need a new car...uuuuggghhhh it's so aggravating!

    Answer by ljliammama at 6:34 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

  • I think we all get nervous every single time. Before you know it ,you will go through it and be ok! Good Luck!

    Answer by PinkRose282 at 6:45 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

  • Thanks everybody...Im glad to hear that we all pretty much share the same anxiety :) Best of luck to everyone out there!! I appreciate all your comments!

    Answer by ljliammama at 8:01 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

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