Just up and left you and your family? A close female friend was living with me, my husband, and my 2 children about 6 months back. She had already hurt us previously by just up and leaving(she had told us she was going out of town and would be back in a week but she really wasn't and had no intentions on coming back at the time) About a month or so she ended up coming back(I dont remember why just that she came back) we were all living together happy until she just up and left again. Said we were holding her back and she didn't feel "free"....Please know that I had told her if she ever wanted to leave to just say she didnt want to stay anymore and for the longest time she didnt work and we were paying for EVERYTHING she needed and in the end when she started working she had other "debts" to pay so she still paid us nothing. My kids were so close to her, they loved her, and for to just up and leave really hurt them. She lied to us, and never "really" wanted to be here....I feel so used...I had to listen to my kids ask where she was for over a week.....Apparently she is pregnant and engaged now....and it makes it harder on me because my best friend is still friendly with her.....but we are still so hurt by what she did to us....how would you handle this??Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:35 AM on Feb. 11, 2011 in Relationships
I wouldn't be mad that she left, she is an adult, not your child. I would however find it rude that she lied and said she was coming back and then didn't, and then showed up on her own terms. You have a home, not a hotel. I would also be upset that she obviously didn't appreciate the effort you guys put into the relationship and getting her what she needed.
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