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do u feel like your virginity was worth anything?

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:35 PM on Nov. 17, 2008 in Relationships

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  • maybe if i had saved myself for marriage. since my husband is the true love of my life. wish he had been the one to loose my virginity too.

    Answer by melody77 at 4:45 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

  • Yes. Unfortunately, I didn't think so when I gave it away.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:45 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

  • I agree with above anon

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:47 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

  • It was worth something to me- my husband knew that I'd never been with another and never had to worry that I was making comparisons.

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:06 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

  • I think it only means something if you actually hold onto it. Personally though I believe in sex before marriage. Wouldn't buy the car without test driving it first right?

    Answer by Pudge_Pie20 at 5:10 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

  • Yes, especially to my husband! We didn't wait for marriage, but we waited until we knew that's where we'd end up!

    Answer by KatieCrandall at 5:15 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

  • I lost it to the boy I married 3 years later. But I wish I had been older. I had no idea the meaning of what I was doing.

    Answer by kathyartist2007 at 5:20 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

  • not really. it's just another one of those life's milestone things. It seems like the only things left for me now are menopause and death! lol

    Answer by admckenzie at 5:33 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

  • Honastly I think I like my situation I lost it to my DD's dad and we were together along time and got married and divorced and now im with the person I want to be with forever so im glad i got the pain of loosing it and "bad sex" outta the way...

    Answer by scaredmommy08 at 5:41 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

  • I agree with scared....while I valued my virginity, although not as much as I really should have. However, now that I am very happily married, I'm glad I got some experience and got the bad stuff outta the way! I would feel inhibited and not able to please my current husband as he is 14 years older than me, and WAY more experienced.

    If I had it to do over, I would definitely have chosen someone different as a first though...that guy was/is a scuz ball.

    Answer by Fourbymom at 6:18 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

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