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Would you go into a relationshp with someone like this?

I met this guy and he is so sweet! He treats me like a queen and my children as if they were his own. But he is bi-polar and he's also not that educated( well he has problems with spelling and stuff like that). He does a lot for me and I appreciate it. But I'm not sure if I should get in a relationship with him because I feel as if we are on different levels( as far as him being "under-educated"( I know that's not a word,lol). What do you think? Am I just being an insensitive bitch about his problems?

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Asked by Anonymous at 5:22 PM on Feb. 11, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (24)
  • No... but does he have a job??

    Answer by khf22 at 5:23 PM on Feb. 11, 2011

  • i don't see why you couldn't have a relationship with someone who has problems spelling and stuff..that is a bit insensitive to me

    Answer by proudmommy690 at 5:24 PM on Feb. 11, 2011

  • I would do the same thing! If it bothers you NOW -- you KNOW it would bother you later on. Why waste the time?

    Answer by BaileysMom476 at 5:24 PM on Feb. 11, 2011

  • If he is bi-polar, that would be a concern. Have you seen him when he at the high end and at the low end? The education part should not be a problem, but the other very well could cause you and your children some big time trouble.

    Answer by NannyB. at 5:26 PM on Feb. 11, 2011

  • It will grow. Move on and hurt him as little as possible.

    Answer by tootoobusy at 5:26 PM on Feb. 11, 2011

  • If you have doubts now, youll have doubts later. No point in wasting your time.

    Answer by Kayere at 5:30 PM on Feb. 11, 2011

  • The bi-polar thing would bother me. i have a friend that was married to a woman who had it and if you dont take your meds, your days can affect everyone else's and you have to really be ready to deal and help him with it.

    Answer by americansugar80 at 5:31 PM on Feb. 11, 2011

  • No. Dealing with someone who is bi-polar is more than I would want to deal with. Plus, if I already have second thoughts and concerns about him, I would end the relationship. No point in dragging out something if I'm already having issues and doubts.


    Answer by SweetSprinkles at 5:31 PM on Feb. 11, 2011

  • Teach him what you want him to know...idk...?

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 5:34 PM on Feb. 11, 2011

  • Is the bi-polar controlled by meds? That is for more of a concern than the education.

    Personally I would move on before each of you fall more.

    Answer by Librarylady60 at 5:43 PM on Feb. 11, 2011

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