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I just have to get this out. I love my husband, and I would never leave him, but the way he acts sometimes just disgusts me. He has a porography addiction, and he lies to me about it. I have just given up trying to get him to understand or "care" that it hurts my feelings and grosses me out. I feel like he chooses porn over me most of the time. Example: we had a mutual agreement that we weren't going to have sex about a month before we got married. The day before, I went out to go get things situated with the wedding flowers, forgot my phone, and walked in on him watching porn and jacking off while he was supposed to be watching our kids.
As if the porn isn't bad enough, I also have to deal with him galking at other women while we are in public. I dread going to the beach with him or anywhere there are going to be half naked women. Last weekend, we were having dinner with his parents and I cought him making "sexy eyes" with this woman aross the restaurant. She was looking back at him and they were pretty much telling eachother "yeah I wanna fuck you so bad" while I'm sitting right there. I am just so sick of it, and I don't know what to do. YES I have tried talking to him about it, but he just blows it off like I'm insecure. I'm not. I know that I'm a beautiful woman, and there are plenty of men out there that would love to date me, but I don't WANT to flirt and look at other men, and I want y husband to respect me and NOT make me look like a total idiot for being with him when we're in public!
Asked by Anonymous at 10:03 PM on Feb. 11, 2011 in Relationships
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