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I need help or advice about sex with dh. it seems like its going down hill.

it seems to be going down hill. i just started anew job. when i get home im exausted, and still have to do most of the house work and supper. dh is not romantic at all. i have spoken to him about it. sex just seems like a chore not a pleasure. please help

 
cajunlady3032

Asked by cajunlady3032 at 8:48 AM on Jul. 8, 2008 in Relationships

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  • wow... answer number 2 and 4 were not very nice or encouraging... honestly, even when its not romantic and you are tired... the best thing to do is DO IT! studies have shown that sex everyday is one way to keep a marriage healthy... my hubby nad i don't have mad crazy sex all the time but we try to do it at least once a day... i work full time too and he has learned that by helping me witht he house and kids, i am much more energetic that night... hope this helps..
    momsamillion

    Answer by momsamillion at 9:51 AM on Jul. 8, 2008

  • Is there any way he can help with the housework and dinner? Maybe you cook some nights and he cooks other nights? We have a rule in my house that when one person cooks the other does the dishes. Have the kids help with cleaning up (at the very least they can clean up their own stuff so you don't have to). Save the major cleaning (like the bathroom and dusting and whatnot) for your days off if you can.

    Hopefully then you'll have more energy for sex. You could even try explaining to your husband that if he helps out more you'll probably be in the mood more. lol
    amethystrse

    Answer by amethystrse at 8:53 AM on Jul. 8, 2008

  • Hun, No One can help you in this field!
    If Sex seems like a Chore now and not pleasure, its time to relax. Don't push the sex issue, it will happen when it happens. My Friend was going through this and found out her Husband was cheating on her.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:54 AM on Jul. 8, 2008

  • he still wants sex like alot. but there is just no passion
    cajunlady3032

    Answer by cajunlady3032 at 8:59 AM on Jul. 8, 2008

  • So he still wants SEX ALOT but NO PASSION.

    NO PASSION = NO LOVE!!!

    He does'nt love you anymore and don't find you attractive.
    He just wants to have Sex. Probably imagining someone else lol.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:27 AM on Jul. 8, 2008

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