OK, I got with my SO when I was just barely 18. We pretty much ran away together to where his family is from. We went from WI to NY. After being together for 5 months I got pregnant. I was ready to leave him and go home until that happened. I decided to try and stick it out. Our daughter will now be 4 in a few months, and I just cannot do this anymore. I broke up with him on Jan 2nd and I have tickets home for Feb 28th. He will not let me leave.
He says that I cannot take his daughter from him. Well too little too late I guess. He has never done anything for her. He never once changed a diaper or made a meal. I used to have to get a babysitter even if he was going to be home or didn't have to work. He has NEVER been alone with her.
He also has treated me like dirt. He has cheated with 5 women that I know of, and I am sure that there are more. He has never directly hit me but has slammed me into walls and pushed me down. I cannot take it anymore.
So anyways I broke up with him and he won't let me leave. You may wonder how this is possible but I am literally scared. I called local authorities and they have informed me that I need his written permission to take my daughter out of state and they cannot put a restraining order on him or anything because I have no proof of what he has done.
What the heck do I do? I saved up 200 dollars for the tickets and I am stuck and scared.
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