My fiance has a job that makes decent money but not as well as mines. I've always made about twice as much as him but him being him he always wants to pay when we go out. So we're having a baby and I went from full time to part time work because I have a manual labor job, which really didnt make a difference when it came to bills but it did when it came to going out. I understood this even though this was never my lifestyle, I just adapted. We dont go out to eat or anything. But when his friends want to go out he finds the money and asks if I want to go. Being pregnant and knowing they probably want to go to a bar or somewhere that will involve drinking, I decline and tell him to go ahead and have fun. I saved up money over the last few months as a surprise to take him out for his birthday to a restaurant slash arcade so it would be something more laid back because I invited family and drinking in front of my mom doesn't go over well. Well today one of my fiance's friends came over and called me uptight because I don't ever like to go out. He doesn't have the extra money, Why would I ask him to go out and spend money when I know he wont have gas to go to work next week. When I was single I went out almost every weekend. I adapted for his sake so he doesn't feel bad about it and now everyone's acting like his pockets are my fault. I don't get it.
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