My fiance goes out all the time. The people that he hangs out with do nothing but stay drunk in a bar, do drugs, and gauk over women. I dont like his friends at all but i dont say anything because its his friends yah kno. But he goes to this bar 3-5 times a week and shoots pool with those guys and i have no idea what goes on. When i call he does not answer and he says his phone was in viberate or he was shooting pool. I dont mind if he goes out like 2 nights a week, but not back to back. He did good this week, he went out onday, and friday, which i am more than ok with, but he told me last night he was not going out tonight because he went out that night and we are running low on money right now and have bills to pay. We both got off of work at 5, and he has been at that bar ever since. Its almost 9 now and he still is not home and wont repsond to my test until like 20 min after i send them. Do i have the right to be mad and say something to him about it?Answer Question
Answer by peanutsmommy1 at 8:43 PM on Feb. 12, 2011
Answer by FXmomTo3 at 8:44 PM on Feb. 12, 2011
If this is how he treats you now and how irresponsible he is now. I'd really rethink him going from fiance to husband.
Answer by SweetSprinkles at 8:45 PM on Feb. 12, 2011
Answer by dbestma at 8:46 PM on Feb. 12, 2011
Answer by dancinintherain at 8:46 PM on Feb. 12, 2011
ummm...yeah i would be irritated myself. i think you have every right to say something to him about it. and he should understand where you are coming from. i don't think its cool that just cause they are guys they think they could come and go as they please. its like they don't have to think twice about leaving. they think we are there baby sitters. but yet if we wanted to go out like they do, it would be a huge problem. good luck if you do talk to him about it.
Answer by Christieluv0614 at 8:48 PM on Feb. 12, 2011
Answer by Rosehawk at 8:48 PM on Feb. 12, 2011
Answer by okmommy08 at 8:53 PM on Feb. 12, 2011
I Promise, if you Marry him it will get 1000 times Worse! i gave it Everything i had for 7 Long Years with my EX-Husband & he wasn't willing to change until i was walking out of the door- the damage was already done though! You deserve So Much More than this..........
Answer by daisyb at 11:01 PM on Feb. 12, 2011