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I really hate that feeling...

I really hate that sick feeling in my gut when my DH and I are at odds and he refuses to address the issue. It's like the air in the house is stale. I don't know how he is okay with it when I feel very uneasy.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:18 PM on Feb. 12, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I knw what yu mean :(
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:20 PM on Feb. 12, 2011

  • I know what you mean as well. It sucks.
    Orionsgirl

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 9:23 PM on Feb. 12, 2011

  • You guys need communication! Read the 5 love languages.
    JackieGirl007

    Answer by JackieGirl007 at 9:25 PM on Feb. 12, 2011

  • I try to communicate and he flat out says he will not talk about it. If I continue, he gets pissed at me. There is literally nothing I can do but wait. It truly stinks.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:28 PM on Feb. 12, 2011

  • I'm sorry. That really bites!
    misses_nick

    Answer by misses_nick at 9:52 PM on Feb. 12, 2011

  • My dh is the opposite he likes to talk about how he feels, what he wants and what he doesn't. I think that is why I love him so much! sorry your feeling this way, maybe try to talk to him about how your feeling about his feelings and he might open up to you!
    momto4girzls

    Answer by momto4girzls at 10:38 PM on Feb. 12, 2011

  • We can be mad as h*ll at each other and he can just go to bed at his normal time and fall right to sleep. I want to take a pillow sometimes and smother him to death. On average we get along more than not.
    RentaMom

    Answer by RentaMom at 10:45 PM on Feb. 12, 2011

  • We are the ones that don't like to leave things unclear. We are very emotional and vocal and men bottle stuff up and just shut us out most of the time. The sick feeling is because you know he is upset and you hate it and there isn't anything you can do about it. I really bites.
    LisaAnn069

    Answer by LisaAnn069 at 11:13 PM on Feb. 12, 2011

  • I think that men get over things quicker than women. They usually don't take things as serious as we do. Maybe we are too hard on ourselves.
    amessageofhope

    Answer by amessageofhope at 12:31 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • im sorry this is happening to you i hope it works out for you
    Ricanmami1

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 2:01 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

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