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How did your s/o change since you have been together ?

better or worst ?

 
gwen20

Asked by gwen20 at 11:00 PM on Feb. 12, 2011 in Relationships

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  • ~*Giggles*~ .... Through the yaers he loves me more, even when I wake him from a snore... he loves my unkempt hair, and in the morning that long blank stare... over the year he choses me above all the rest, even when I am poking him and being a pest!

    Seriously??? Over the years he choses me and his kids above all others, and has learned what matter most in life! I appreciate him for all his sacrifices, hard work, and placing us above his own needs
    MommaClark3

    Answer by MommaClark3 at 11:05 PM on Feb. 12, 2011

  • ~*BETTER*~
    MommaClark3

    Answer by MommaClark3 at 11:05 PM on Feb. 12, 2011

  • I often feel like I have been dooped into this marriage. While we were dating he was sweet and caring and actually acted like he gave a damn. Now, well, all he cares about is if he's getting some. I figured out that in his brain sex=love, so he thinks he shows me he loves me by lusting after me constantly. :( So I say worse. I dont feel loved and I dont feel cared for.
    ReneeLRS

    Answer by ReneeLRS at 11:25 PM on Feb. 12, 2011

  • He still tells me I'm his favorite. Maybe it's simple but it's nice to still be the favorite after 11 years. That's a really good thing. If I had to pick anything bad...he doesn't have that playful, sexual reaction to me like I wish he did. It's still good though. :)
    RentaMom

    Answer by RentaMom at 11:25 PM on Feb. 12, 2011

  • RENEELRS --- totally shut up!!! LOL I WISH my husband related sex-love cause I know he REALLY loves me! LOL hahaha I'm sorry if you don't like ur situation. I was just trying to be light hearted with you. :) I'm married to the only man who has ever lived since the creation of the universe who will say no.
    RentaMom

    Answer by RentaMom at 11:28 PM on Feb. 12, 2011

  • no problem RentaMom :) just was showed love in other ways besides sex before marriage and have always asked and hoped for things to change...im sure things will change with some time
    I guess I want someone who adores me as well as loves and lusts after me
    ReneeLRS

    Answer by ReneeLRS at 12:18 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • my boyfriend is not better or worst he is ok but getting better
    Ricanmami1

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 1:49 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • I swear, the man hasn't changed one whit in 15 years. He even looks the same! Good thing he was awesome all this time.
    Fistandantalus

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 7:06 AM on Feb. 13, 2011