My husband and I have been having a hard time with our relationship ever since he came home from his last deployment. He was home only 10 months and will be gone for over a year now. He really doesnt talk to me (phone, IM, etc), doesnt tell me about his days or anything for that matter, the only time we actually have a conversation is when we talk about our almost 2 yr old.
The sexual relationship is blah on my side and he thinks it rocks on his. (as long as he is getting some he is happy, sexually and in the rest of life.) I have found that he thinks sex means love, so in turn I get no cuddeling, no hand holding, no closeness, the only time he kisses me is to make it go to sex.
I dont ever feel giddy about him and if I do he basically drop kicks it, so I just dont get excited anymore. I was thinking tonight and realized Im not even sure about the love part. I just feel like I have an emptiness when I think of if I love him. I'm more annoyed by him and him just wanting sex.
Anyways, I was wondering if there are some women out there that have found ways to respark the love feeling and the wanting to be with them again, not just sexually but with them in the relationship?????
Sorry so long. Im sitting here in tears just having these words come out of me in some way. I didnt get married just to get out of it so thats not what I want, just hate knowing I had more love in a relationship prior than I ever have with my husband :(
Asked by Anonymous at 11:47 PM on Feb. 12, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by AmyLynn5398 at 11:58 PM on Feb. 12, 2011
Answer by AmyLynn5398 at 12:00 AM on Feb. 13, 2011
Answer by Ricanmami1 at 1:32 AM on Feb. 13, 2011
Answer by 1stTimeMommy101 at 7:41 AM on Feb. 13, 2011
Answer by 1stTimeMommy101 at 7:47 AM on Feb. 13, 2011