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Im having such a crappy night.

I love my boyfriend, but sometimes ( a lot lately) he can be an inconsiderate jerk. Im moody to begin with due to all these pregnancy hormones, and is just making it so much worse. He seems so distant from anything I try to talk about. He just ignores me. Sometimes, I would like to have a serious conversation with his contributions to the conversation. He seems like he doesnt care at all that we are having a baby. I cannot get him to help me out at ALL. Im just pissed off, hurt and venting. He is just in our bedroom fucking around instead of trying to just hang out with me. All I want is to feel important to him, but lately hes just pushing me away. Grrr, I hate his guts sometimes. Sorry if you read this. there is nothing to it, I just need to get it out so I dont take it out on him. Im just hating life lately. My home is infested with fleas, he makes excuses every time not to do something about it and I have all these itchy bites. My cat is a helion cat...I want to get rid of him because I cannot deal with him, but the king of the fucking world wont let me....and does he hve to deal with it? NO. the sink is full of dishes, the bathroom is dirty, and all this other stuff. I am sick of doing everything myself, yet not being "allowed" to make any decisions. I want to rent a movie from on demand right now. But im not allowed to. STUPID>

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Asked by Tarrar at 12:29 AM on Feb. 13, 2011 in Relationships

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  • get out while you can.

    Answer by febmom007 at 12:31 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • wow he sounds a bit controlling. You aren't allowed to rent a movie? I'm sorry you are going through this.

    Answer by parajumper3 at 12:33 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • Ugh what a jerk! Seriously u need to get rid of the fleas. No joke those bugs carry SERIOUSLY harmful diseases. They could hurt u and the baby. Tell him to get off his lazy ass and help u with the damn house! Im sorry u gotta deal with him but just Something ive learned is that men (boys) are like dogs. U gotta train thier asses and trust takes FOREVER to get em at least halfway decent

    Answer by HayliesMama325 at 12:46 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • I dont know what his problem is. We have been together 3 years, he was married before me, so he knows how these things work. I just cannot figure out what is so wrong with me that he just cant get it together and act like he cares about me :(

    Comment by Tarrar (original poster) at 12:49 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • well go on a strike if he wants you to be there for him then dont if you want me to help then you have help me to im sorry your going threw this i hope you feel better soon mama

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 1:16 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • forget the movie and get an exterminator. Fleas can be dangerous. The cat, well maybe he will have to visit F's mother for the next couple of years.

    Answer by tootoobusy at 1:19 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • Sending a Happy Fairy Now>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

    Answer by Mommy1234321 at 2:57 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

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