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If you have a firend who is clearly into your husband will you still allow her in your home?

by the way it's a 20 friendship...

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:21 AM on Feb. 13, 2011 in Relationships

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  • yeah i would just talk to my husband and tell him and make sure you keep a good watch on them (if need be)

    Answer by jesslovesyou08 at 11:22 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • yes, I think I would talk to my DH about it and get his thoughts on it. I trust my DH enough that even if she tried to put the moves on him he would walk away. I think if they have been friends for that long and my DH still wants to be friends then I would be okay with it.

    Good Luck!

    Answer by cornflakegirl3 at 11:23 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • I would have to say probably not..But not because I do not trust my husband, any friend who would even think twice about going after my husband isn't really a friend at all.

    Answer by Ctink8189 at 11:23 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • Yes, only if he wants it that way, but I would forewarn him of what I think is going on.

    Answer by older at 11:23 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • no the firndship of 20 years is mine and hers not my husband

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 11:24 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • Nope, someone like that is not a friend.

    Answer by treynlisa at 11:27 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • No, don't need that drama.

    Answer by tootoobusy at 11:29 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • I made that mistake once. Never again.

    Answer by -AJ at 11:31 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • I would talk to my husband about it and go from there. He would probably not want her around if I know how he is. If he felt it was harmless then I would allow her around. It would be a mutual decision.

    Answer by gemgem at 11:31 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • No, I trust my husband but what kind of friend goes after her friends man especially after being friends for 20 years?
    That shows little respect and I would first try to talk to her about it but if she tries to start drama I would end it.

    Answer by Gnomeofmyheart at 11:31 AM on Feb. 13, 2011

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