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LADIES: would you date a guy that is on parole

There is a guy who i am talking to and he is on parole for a whole year. He makes me laugh,does nice stuff for me and loves to buy me gifts. He says he has change. What would you do? Since he spent 15yrs in the pen.

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Asked by twins4life2001 at 5:40 PM on Feb. 13, 2011 in Relationships

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  • No.

    Answer by sahlady at 5:41 PM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • I guess it would really depend on what he did to get there in the first place...especially if it was a one-time offense or not. I mean, there are always things we look past when we love someone right?
    And of course, just be careful...

    Answer by AdensMama0308 at 5:42 PM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • what was he in for?

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:45 PM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • he was in for FIFTEEN years????


    Answer by Anonymous at 5:45 PM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • I wouldn't just because my stepdad was in and out all the time when i was a kid. It was a crazy way to live and be parented. It would definitely be dependent on the individual, circumstances, etc. by my knee jerk reaction is no.

    Answer by silversmom at 5:46 PM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • Well it would completely depend on what his charges were for me.

    Answer by genagina at 5:50 PM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • Not if I had kids.

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 5:59 PM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • The parole doesn't scare me as much as the FIFTEEN yrs he spent inside. Guys get a bit messed up in the head after being in that long. I'd rethink this one before you get too attached.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 6:03 PM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • ~*Honestly*~... even though i get the whole "I served my time" thing... HELL NO

    Do I care others do? Nope! What you do is your business and choice... *Hugs* and wishing you the best of luck!!!

    Answer by MommaClark3 at 6:08 PM on Feb. 13, 2011

  • Noooo Way!

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:10 PM on Feb. 13, 2011

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