If there was a previous relationship and I've been keeping distance, would a man still harbor feelings if he's been avoiding contact?
I have not been actively pursuing a guy from a previous relationship. But, there have been times when I have said "hello" to him in the breezeway. He did in the past look for me when he comes within a certain area where I work. He one time came behind me to say "hello" when I was taking down a display. We had a quick & shallow conversation before departing. Now he's not been going his regular path, but going the long way around. I'm not pursuing him, but only doing the work that I'm assigned. It doesn't matter to me if he takes his regular route, I just keep things professional.
I would like to know what's going through his head when I've made it clear that there is distance now. Should I be cautious?
Answer by momofonelilguy at 8:47 PM on Feb. 13, 2011
Answer by coffeeyum at 9:03 PM on Feb. 13, 2011