In the fifth to sixth month of a relationship can you get into a rut of the same ole same ole? I feel as though all we do is have sex and watch tv. Are you kidding me and who does that crap?? I like to do stuff such as hiking etc., and sometimes it seems like what I want to do doesn't matter. Seems as though if it is something outside of the house or bedroom I want to do doesn't get done unless it is shopping. Whooptyfreakingdoo!
If I talk to him about it and tell him how I feel it seems as though he gets irritated and I don't understand why. I have been blown off for V-Day, and now I feel like I am being blown off for Florida this weekend. I feel as though I shouldn't give myself up with sex anymore, I feel like if I did that I would be using at a weapon and not something I want either. We have only been having sex for a couple of months. But I feel why should I give myself up to someone who seems less concerned with what I want, I feel as though a lot of times it is one sided now. Is this a rut??
Do couples get like this, this early in a relationship??? How to get out of what feels like a rut.......it is really kinda depresssing.
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