I am sick, and so are our children. My husband has been taking care of everything, cleaning, cooking, laundry, keeping us comfortable, and all without complaining at all. He loves taking care of us, even though he doesn't like us sick, obviously. Even when I'm not sick, when he's home, he plays with our children, gives baths, feeds them, reads stories, or helps me out with any housework I haven't gotten to. When he gets sick, he never complains. Of course, he isn't perfect, and he does have a few days where he just is tired of everything, and I can understand that, he recently inherited his father's company, and getting everything worked out is a pain, and when he has that day where he is just completely worn out and tired, I do everything I can to get the kids to bed early, and then do whatever I can for him.
My question is, why do so many of the moms on here seem to think that a man actually being a man, and good one, along with an amazing father, is fake? Why is it so hard to believe? And why, when I or another mom states in a post that her marriage is wonderful and her husband terrific, must everyone try to put her down, telling her that she is a troll? I understand that many of you are tired of being in bad marriages with not so great men, but why try to tear others down? And are there really that many terrible marriages that a good one makes everyone here suspicious?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:58 AM on Feb. 14, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 9:59 AM on Feb. 14, 2011
Answer by tiddliwinks at 10:01 AM on Feb. 14, 2011
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Answer by cornflakegirl3 at 10:27 AM on Feb. 14, 2011
My husband is a wonderful man. I'm guessing jealousy is the root of the negative responses.
Answer by beeky at 10:31 AM on Feb. 14, 2011
Answer by -AJ at 10:38 AM on Feb. 14, 2011
Answer by zebbiebug at 11:49 AM on Feb. 14, 2011