My nephew is 10 and has many issues. He is very rude and has no respect for anyone. He wears high heals, plays with dolls and will be very innappropriate with his cousin (my other nephew). His cousin just turned 6. They will coshower sometimes and my nephew will constantly try to grab and "tickle" his little cousins privates. Hes the same way out of the shower. He is also very mean to his cousin. He will teach him bad things and will abuse him when no one is around. By abuse I mean pain. Not touching. (That we know of). He comes from an effed up fam. His mom is a user and lives with him. He is being "raised" by his grandparents(my inlaws). I know they are not molesters so maybe it might happen somewhere else? I have no clue. Ive told my MIL that she needs to take him to counseling. He is a horrible and a really messed up child. She agrees and yet does nothing about it.
What is wrong with him? Im just assuming that hes been molested. There is no proof nor has he said he was. Im just tryiing to figure out why he is so screwed up. I dont ever want to be around him and will not let dd around him. Is he gay? Would a gay child act this way? Is he just desturbed? Im so confused. Please give me your input. Thanks
Answer by Kellyjude1 at 7:24 PM on Feb. 14, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 6:24 PM on Feb. 14, 2011
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Answer by jdjamm at 6:34 PM on Feb. 14, 2011
just being gay would not cause him to act this way. Obviously something has happened to him for him to think it is ok to act like that. Maybe you should contact the school counselor if the grandparents will not do anything. The counselor will take the appropriate steps to find out if something seriously messed up is going on in his life. Good luck and I don't blame you for not letting your kids around him I wouldn't either. Someone has to do something and it sounds like you are the only one who will take initiative .
Answer by malleymom106 at 6:59 PM on Feb. 14, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 9:07 PM on Feb. 14, 2011