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Do u think ppl are really that stupid or are they just being nice?

my dhs cousin has been prego for 2 years now, she get prego then conviently looses it. this last time she really blew it out of proportion. she was prego with 4 babies...conceived naturally, and she miscarried about xmas time whn she was 30 weeks. and now she is 10 weeks prego again. people have to see that she is lying u dont miscarry at 30 weeks its pre term labor and at worst they would be still born. she claimed to just lost them at home and thats it, turned around and got prego....really? i asked her a bunch of questions on the procedure that she had following this so called miscarry and she just got mad at me. i have had a miscarry the first time i was prego at 8 weeks, i didnt even know i was preggo until i got to the hospital. i was in soo much pain physically and emotionally for some time after, haveing sex immediately after would of been the last thing i wanted to do. besides it takes at least 4 weeks to ovulate after miscarriage cause of the hormone factor.
i mean if someone hasnt gone thru one should have enough general knowledge to know she is lying about being prego and having the miscarriage....
fyi i talk to her parents all the time they would of mentioned the miscarriage and pregnancy, her mom cant keep her mouth shut about anything..


Asked by Anonymous at 6:48 PM on Feb. 14, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (13)
  • Sounds as if she might be mentally ill,and in need of counseling, medication, or both. Sadly, that is the type of woman who eventually ends up stealing a newborn, or killing the mom to get the baby. Her family should seriously consider getting that poor woman some help. Normal people don't behave that way.

    Answer by cbk_mom3 at 6:53 PM on Feb. 14, 2011

  • She's definitely lying and I would say that woman needs some serious psychiatric help.

    Answer by leah_rai at 6:51 PM on Feb. 14, 2011

  • She is sick. Please try to be a little compassionate. It is not important that you be right. For some reason she needs attention and love.

    Answer by tootoobusy at 6:53 PM on Feb. 14, 2011

  • i do not understand how she would be being nice in this scenerio. i think she is probably lying. it seems that way. like i you said 30 weeks is preterm not misscarriage.

    Answer by lambdarose at 6:53 PM on Feb. 14, 2011

  • maybe she is an attention whore. does she have any kids? maybe she misses the attention she got from when she really was pregnant and she wants all that attention again so she is pretending

    Answer by shay1130 at 6:55 PM on Feb. 14, 2011

  • so at 30 wks she wsn't showing? is that what your saying. if someone claimed to be that far i certainly would find it hard to believe but then again i have watched that show i didn't know i was pregnant. so who knows but it certainly does sounds like this girl has some issues with not only lying but if she isn't having babies and she should stop if she really quote on qoute can't have any. i would tell her that for sure. just ignore her.

    Answer by melody77 at 7:14 PM on Feb. 14, 2011

  • To answer your question, maybe they're just too uncomfortable to ask her since it's a touchy subject?

    Answer by leah_rai at 6:51 PM on Feb. 14, 2011

  • nothing is personal with her me i had way more tmi moments with her than i would like to have..... her tells it like it is and its no holds barred, esp with family

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:00 PM on Feb. 14, 2011

  • I think she needs mental help.

    Answer by PhoenixsMommy10 at 7:02 PM on Feb. 14, 2011

  • well this woman was prego b4, she had twins. and we were prego the same time, our boys just turned 6. that time around she carried ultrasound pics everywhere she went always showing them to ppl even if they already seen them. she ended up having her boys at 28 weeks, and they were in the nicu for over 2 months. i had mine(1) at 34 weeks and i went to her for advice and comfort since her boys were in the same hospital as mine. and when her babies got sick her mom told everyone everything. (her boys are fine now) this woman is now in her 40's and i think part of the reason she is lying is cause her dh wants kids of his own, and thats how she got him to marry her, by saying she was prego by him. it just find it frustrating that she continues to lie about being prego. ....and ill admit im one of those who sits back and knods and agrees cause i dont want to rock the boat.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:11 PM on Feb. 14, 2011