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What a nice Valentine's day.

So DH tells me on Valentines day that when he asks me how I feel he doesn't really want to know. That I should just say I'm good even if I am not happy. I ask if that would make him happy and he says yes. So I say okay and he's been happy the rest of the evening. Happy valentines day to you to sweetheart!

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:52 PM on Feb. 14, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Um....little strange...but if youre ok with that... :-D

    Answer by soldiermom1986 at 9:54 PM on Feb. 14, 2011

  • Is this how he wants it all the time, or just for today?

    Answer by mandaday at 9:55 PM on Feb. 14, 2011

  • doesn't sound very good....

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:55 PM on Feb. 14, 2011

  • Are you happy? I really want to know.

    Answer by tootoobusy at 9:57 PM on Feb. 14, 2011

  • I am not happy. Its just another way that he let's me know how little I mean to him.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 10:00 PM on Feb. 14, 2011

  • I'm sorry... that sucks! Were you nagging him or something?

    Answer by Mel_in_PHX at 10:08 PM on Feb. 14, 2011

  • So basically if his he thinks all is great in his world then he is happy and you are suppose to put your feelings and happiness aside in order to make him happy. Doesn't really seem like that is fair to you at all and that he is very selfish because he is only concerned with his own happiness and not yours!

    Answer by 2boysnaprincess at 10:46 PM on Feb. 14, 2011

  • I think I would discontinue all conversation with him. That has to be the most insensitive, uncaring thing I've ever heard. I'm not one for saying leave, but I couldn't live with someone like that.

    Answer by Austinsmom35 at 1:52 PM on Feb. 15, 2011

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