Okay, I have a 3 kids all to which I consider to be mine. Married. Love my hubby, love all my kids. EX drama is killing me, 5 years in the making. DH has showed me parts of life I never could do for myself or son. Simple things as lobster, mall clothing, bills paid on time, etc. Financially a wonderful DH.
When it comes to the ex, he can state as pleases, I speak, he becomes deensive of her. Don't get it. Court has been quiet for awhile, but get hit in the face any time she gets a hair across her ass. Bm does whatever she can to get skids to hate me, then I have to rebuild and "fight" for their respect again. They speak to me like I am scum.. Then I get told to stop acting like a child, because I am arguing with the child over the way I am spoken too. SHe will spoil them, and then not pay her CS. SO they think life with mom is all about what they can get, and all fun times. (she gets them for all vacations and other holidays. It is just a forever argument about something and it is just not ending...........help. Give me your view. I am about to disengage from all, this is what BM and Bfamily have wanted from the begining. I feel like at the same time I am giving up on my life and my kids.
The last stressor for him, caused him to not speak, sleep in the same bed, emotional or physical closeness for 6 months. At one point would reach for a hug, and he would clearly state..NO. Would actually put 200% attention on kids, just to make sure there was a wall between us. Then all of the sudden in December, takes the block off of his phone, buys me an extravagant Christmas gift. And life is OKAY again. In the meantime, I took getting spoken to like a child, told I couldn't cook, clean, take care of all the kids. Even told one of the kids they where going to sleep elsewhere. How can a "DH" be this way to someone he supposively loves? It felt like I was living with a room mate. Am I crazy
Asked by Anonymous at 11:08 PM on Feb. 14, 2011 in General Parenting
Answer by PhoenixsMommy10 at 11:15 PM on Feb. 14, 2011
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