Hey I am asking for a friend and she has no internet right now.
She is dating a guy and has been for eight months. She feels as though she is having trust issues with him. She got a vib one night that she thought he was talking to someone else and he said he was when he called her back, well he said it was this guy. When she seen him next and when he was asleep she checked his phone (I know I know the whole privacy thing, but she had a hunch that she was rigt on because of how he was acting), she was right he was talking to one of his female friends that is 10 years older than him that night and he has always claimed she is "just a friend." She has caught him three times doing this, question is why would he lie?? IF she is just a friend who actually showed a little bit of jealousy when he told her about his gf (my friend), but he actually told my friend there is no way what so ever he has any interest like that in her. He is 40 she is 50, (my friend is 38) so why would he not just tell his gf who he was talking to instead of lying about it IF it is nothing?? Even though it seems like a "white lie" isn't a lie a lie no matter what color you paint it??
Maybe it isn't a big thing, maybe he was trying to smooth it over so she wouldn't think anything is going on?? My friend is pretty easy going and doesn't keep him under her thumb, so she is wondering whatelse he could have lied about or what he does lie about, I don't know what else to tell her I am out of advice. My thought was anyone who tells a white lie has no problem telling a bigger lie with no second thoughts about it. Maybe I am wrong?? What are your thoughts???
Thank you :)
I would like to also add what I forgot to put. He never sees this woman she lives like an hr and a half away from my friend and her bf, not sure if that means anything or not but thought I would mention it. She said most of the calls on the call logs are that woman calling him and him calling her back there has been a few times he has called her with her calling him first. Again don't know if it means anything but throwing that out there as well.......
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