My husband and I make a total combined salary of 10,000 a month(and to add to this, he also has a commision). We are by no means poor. I work as a part time nanny ( a job I had to get bc he wouldnt really ever spend money on me) However, all my husband cares about is saving saving saving. I am in DESPERATE need of new jeans. I have gained a few pounds, so my clothes dont fit anymore. I have had the same clothes for over 3 yrs now. I NEVER ask for anything. My feet are sooo gross I want a pedi. Even just some things to do my feet myself. But no, he says the little things add up. TRUE. BUT, we are NOT poor!!!
I am very sick right now, and I needed medicine extremely bad! I told him this a dozen times! Do you think he bought me any?? No. I had to ask him for money this morning. So I was putting the clothes in the laundry basket, when I picked up his jeans he had about 500 bucks in the pocket. I ask for a twenty, and he asks "why do you need a 20, I didnt know medicine was that expensive?" I say "i need it for medicine, and possibly some food if we get hungry" He says "fine here" I even came home, and gave him the change back.
Im so tired of not being able to buy myself anything. NOTHING. I went to the post office and used 10 bucks, and he flipped out. I dont know what to do anymore. He is so darn cheap! He never goes out of his way for me. He never buys me anything!! I told him I need a haircut, and clothes, he just ignores me. If I want to buy a three dollar shirt, thats even a problem..
I have the money to buy lavish items, and yet, I dont even buy myself a pack of undies.
I dont know what to do anymore....
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