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can you ask your doctor not to check you?i havent had any cramping or any thing and i was just checked saturday night at the hospital and she told me i was barely a finger tip my next appointment is on wednesday.

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mckowntasha

Asked by mckowntasha at 11:57 PM on Nov. 17, 2008 in Pregnancy

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  • why not let him check you ? you may have gone farther since then
    iloveyall2008

    Answer by iloveyall2008 at 12:00 AM on Nov. 18, 2008

  • iloveyall2008
    ilove...
    why not let him check you ? you may have gone farther since then

    it hurts me and every time they keep saying your closed or finger tip or barely a finger tip and i havent had any cramps or any thing.
    mckowntasha

    Answer by mckowntasha at 12:03 AM on Nov. 18, 2008

  • but what if since saturadya u have dialated 3 cms? they shoudl knwo that but im sure you can but idk if they will liek it they may tellyou that they have to anyways i know it hurts it hurts me and im only 17 weeks
    iloveyall2008

    Answer by iloveyall2008 at 12:05 AM on Nov. 18, 2008

  • You never know unless you ask, it's definitely worth a shot!
    KatieCrandall

    Answer by KatieCrandall at 12:05 AM on Nov. 18, 2008

  • can you even dialate with out feeling some kind of cramping or any thing?
    mckowntasha

    Answer by mckowntasha at 12:07 AM on Nov. 18, 2008

  • yes you dialate with out feeling some kind of cramping
    he might ot check ayways sice you just wet
    mama2twins07

    Answer by mama2twins07 at 12:09 AM on Nov. 18, 2008

  • yes i dont think you do ever feel it i never knew i was dialating and i never met a woman that did know
    iloveyall2008

    Answer by iloveyall2008 at 12:11 AM on Nov. 18, 2008

  • I definitely understand not wanting to be checked. It might not make a ton of difference, anyway, unless they're watching for something. I mean, just because you're three one day doesn't mean you'll have your baby the next, it could be a month! Or you could not measure anything and have a baby hours later!
    KatieCrandall

    Answer by KatieCrandall at 12:23 AM on Nov. 18, 2008

  • yeah thats why i dont see why they check you?
    mckowntasha

    Answer by mckowntasha at 12:40 AM on Nov. 18, 2008

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