I am pregnant and hormonal, so I don’t know if I am overreacting, so I need some opinions, please! And PLEASE don’t bash me for asking this question.
DH is a store manager at a restaurant. Monday’s he has to work late to do inventory – and I am used to it. Some weeks he gets off at midnight, other weeks 1:30-2:00 am. The earliest he can leave is 11:30 pm. Well he got home this morning at 3:00 am! (We literally live less than a minute away, so he would have had to get off at 3:00 to get home that late). When he got home he woke me up (gave me a good night kiss, and was getting ready for bed). I looked at the clock and said, “Wow, baby it is 3 in the morning.” He said, “I know, we were there really late because we were so busy last night (V-day).” So I went to sleep, not thinking much about it, until I woke up this morning. I kept getting this nagging feeling that there was something going on, so I, like a terrible person, looked at his cell phone. He made a call to a number I have never seen before, so stupid me, I call it to see if VM picks up and it is a lady named Gina (I have never heard of a Gina before) at 11:30. Then he called his store at 11:35, and the store called him back at 11:40. He then called his dad, and at midnight Gina called him back. Mind you, he could have been off at 11:30 – so I can’t help but feel really suspicious of the fact that he was calling his store at 11:35 – where was he at that he needed to call the store? On his way to Gina’s house? Who is Gina? Now, at the same time, I can’t help but think it is possible he took a delivery at 11:30, which is why he called Gina (maybe that is where he was delivering to), and he tried calling her, but she didn’t answer so he called the store for directions (he is new to the area and doesn’t know where all the streets are). I am not going to wake him up to talk to him about this, and I am trying to rationalize the entire thing first and try not to freak out. Would you be suspicious, or does it sound like he really just had to work late?
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