My neighbor whispers in my daughters ear. Now I am looking at her like she is crazy in shock I thought she was joking but she seriously don't see anything wrong with it. It was in front of my other daughter and her daughter. She said secrets. I always teach my kids we don't tell secrets. I think it is completely rude, to whisper in someones ear while you are all sitting in the kitchen, living room any where. That is like 3 ladies going to lunch and I whisper in one of there ears, too me that is rude..
When I spoke to her she said she always does that when planning stuff secretly Valentines day, I felt like she looked at me like I was crazy when I told her I don't like it.
I teach my kids it is rude. What do you think????
I don't believe any adult should tell a child to keep a "secret" or any knowledge from his/her parents.
That is wrong.
Whispering or blowing in a persons ear at a table or excluding anyone at a table is tacky and lacking in social etiquette.
What did ever happen to social etiquette??
Answer by Missikat75 at 5:03 PM on Feb. 15, 2011
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Answer by Zoeyis at 1:20 PM on Feb. 15, 2011
It was a very odd way to handle it....
I would look at mom and say we have a surprise for valentines day we need to discuss, would you mind if we went over here and planed.... I would say it all cuties and exaggerated. Then I would take the child to the other side of the room where we were still visible and talk in a very quiet manor.
That is how I always handled things like that. I agree you dont want to teach your kids to have "secrets" but surprises are VERY fun to plan with kids.
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Answer by MaryMW at 1:24 PM on Feb. 15, 2011
My daughter is grown but, if a neighbor was whispering in her ear when she was younger; i would not be happy- it is rude & should of been handled differently!
Answer by daisyb at 1:35 PM on Feb. 15, 2011
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