This is our 3rd pregnancy and for the first 2 the hormones were pretty OK with me, but with this one.... Oi. I have talked with my OB, hubby is present at all appointments, and they said it was normal. But hubby still thinks I am just being a witch... I don't know what to do!!!! I threw 4 things at him today while we were arguing (I am NOT a violent person)... I can't do this anymore!!!!
Answer by kaydenrenee08 at 9:16 AM on Feb. 17, 2011
Answer by worriedmommy600 at 9:51 PM on Feb. 15, 2011
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Answer by shanapiv at 11:07 AM on Feb. 16, 2011
I can totally relate. I'm sorry that your having a rough time this time around. However, throwing things and being a "witch" are unacceptable. You know what's going on, you can't let yourself get that upset, period.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 9:46 PM on Feb. 15, 2011
I had a little time to kind of remember what it was like having all of those hormones going nuts. My pregnancy THIS time around has been easier but with my first, I was a freaking mad woman. When I look back, my hub didn't really "get it" either. His lack of support and understanding pissed me off to start with. Now that I have seriously thought about what I felt like, throwing things is understandable. Not okay, but understandable. Your body is changing, your thoughts and emotions are on edge. Stuff happens. Keep yourself in check mama. Maybe keep a diary? The only thing that I found that really worked for me was to not say ANYTHING when I got upset. I'd write it down in a journal. I'd think on it for a little while. Let it simmer. THEN if I still felt the same, I'd tell hubby.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 10:13 PM on Feb. 15, 2011
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