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Why does this always happen?

a co-worker lost their place because of the holiday shut downs. we let them stay with us. two weeks after moving in he lost his job. they have two kids who go to school. his wife doesn't work and now he doesn't have a job. i go to school and work, hubby goes to work and we have two kids who are in school and one who isn't. they told us they were going to charge us for watching the youngest one. and they refused to do the dishes and make sure the trash was taken to the curb. every time i mention that they need to help around the house he blows up and says they are leaving. he said it on the second then he said again on the friday before the super bowl and the third time was on sunday. i told him theres the door good bye. they would sit on facebook all day and when i tried to do my on line class they kept asking when i would be done. and the real kicker was they told me that we couldn't take a shower unless they said so. would you ahve kicked them out two? they were staying for six weeks and not paying rent. just wondering.

 
noel1978

Asked by noel1978 at 10:40 PM on Feb. 15, 2011 in Home & Garden

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Answers (10)
  • And if they want to charge you for baby sit you should say well ok but then here is how much you are going to pay for gas, electr, water and Internet!
    gou18

    Answer by gou18 at 10:56 PM on Feb. 15, 2011

  • They're dictating to you when you can take a shower in your own home?
    Then have the gull to demand money for watching your child when they're living in your home rent free?
    Do they honestly not have any morals at all? They clearly have no respect for you.
    They should be kicked out. You're allowing them to stay in your home rent/bill free that should be enough. They shouldn't be freeloading, they should have jobs and be helping paying the bills.
    JazzlikeMraz

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 11:09 PM on Feb. 15, 2011

  • Oh why are they still there ? I would have them out before the super bowl, we have a say about people like that "limosnero y con garrote" it means begger and with a stick, they are just taking advantage of your family and using the kids to do it, seems that now you have 4 new kids ?
    gou18

    Answer by gou18 at 10:53 PM on Feb. 15, 2011

  • They would have been out of my house the first day they did anything like that. If they are not paying rent they need to be doing most of the household duties and watching your child. Personally, I would tell them to get out! If they will be homeless then I would offer to keep the kids for a short period of time while they go to a homeless shelter. I have no sympathy for moochers.
    ashisamom

    Answer by ashisamom at 11:07 PM on Feb. 15, 2011

  • I would have kicked them out in the first week. What incredible NERVE to say they want money for babysitting when they don't pay you!!?! Kick them out.
    Scuba

    Answer by Scuba at 11:12 PM on Feb. 15, 2011

  • KICK THEM OUT,NOW!
    pswiley

    Answer by pswiley at 11:17 PM on Feb. 15, 2011

  • you know the answer , do it !
    GlitteribonMom

    Answer by GlitteribonMom at 8:16 AM on Feb. 16, 2011

  • Yes they have to go. They are taking over your house. You shouldn't have to pay them for babysitting. Your house should be cleaned by the time you get home. They should have dinner ready too. If you are not going to throw them out then you and your husband need to set some rules for them. If they don't like them they can leave.

    HomeAlone45

    Answer by HomeAlone45 at 9:06 AM on Feb. 16, 2011

  • FIRST OFF..


    RISKY BEHAVIOR #1 YOU ALLOWED THEM TO WATCH YOUR CHILD? Do you know anything about them? Aside from that she is lazy and he lost his job..? HOW DO YOU KNOW WHAT KIND OF CRAP THEY COULD AND WOULD DO TO YOUR CHILD.. WOW?!?! Talk about taking chances...


    RISKY BEHAVOR #2 ALLOWING PEOPLE YOU DON'T KNOW TO MOVE INTO YOUR HOUSE!


    RISKY BEHAVIOR #3 ALLOWING STRANGERS TO START DICTATING THE RULES AND BEHAVIORS OF YOUR FAMILY IN YOUR OWN HOME...


     


    2boys4momma

    Answer by 2boys4momma at 9:29 AM on Feb. 16, 2011

  • Hunny I know you were trying to be nice to these people.. There is a difference between helping and risking your family's sanity and safety.. KICK THESE LEACHES OUT!
    But helping someone is offering to find them some form of public service.. EX SALVATION ARMY OFTEN PUTS PEOPLE WHO ARE HOMELESS INTO A MOTEL.. ETC AND SOCIAL SERVICES DOES THAT ALSO.. AND WOULD MAKE THEM GET A JOB...PUTTING IN 20+ JOB APPLICATIONS IN A MONTH..
    2boys4momma

    Answer by 2boys4momma at 9:30 AM on Feb. 16, 2011

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