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Eviction what should i do with him

I am about 99 percent surewe going to get an eviction notice because the weather has been bad and we havent been working. Well SO is so nonchalant about it like it is no big deal and won't even consider getting a better paying while i am actively looking for a second job...i am to the point where if he doesn't get beat in the head with reality really soon i am going to have to send him back to his mommy's. especially when his dad has a 30,000 dollar check with his name on and refuses to even call him. With our taxes, instead of catching up on rent he wants to move to a more expensive place...oh did I mention our is on its last leg...idk what to do anymore....i could either cry or beat the piss out of someone ugh...any suggestions


Asked by Anonymous at 11:10 PM on Feb. 15, 2011 in Relationships

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  • That's a man for you. They just don't take things as serious as we do, so they just end up procrastinating. My FIL thought that they were joking when they were taking a foreclosure on the house. He didn't take it serious enough and wound up losing it. Then he wondered how it happened. I admit that he needs to grow up, but too bad that things in life don't come free. ( Although we wish sometimes.)

    Answer by amessageofhope at 12:51 AM on Feb. 16, 2011

  • Sit his ass down and give it to him straight dont suger coat anything and if he is not ready to grow up and be a man and take care of busniess pack his shit and send him to his mothers, and I am so sorry that you are going through this good luck

    Answer by ExtremlyUnique at 11:43 PM on Feb. 15, 2011

  • thanks extreme...i do keep telling him but doesn't mean anything to him

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 11:44 PM on Feb. 15, 2011

  • let him go...

    Answer by smiley745 at 12:59 AM on Feb. 16, 2011

  • Well is your S/O is unmotivated then you need to move on because he will continue to bring you down, he seems like he wants you to do all the work and he reaps the rewards "ABSOLUTELY" not acceptable. You need to do something about that.

    Answer by dusty1962 at 7:18 PM on Feb. 18, 2011

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