I have sat my DH down at different times and discussed why it isn't fair for one person to do all that needs to be done around the house. He then is great for a few weeks. Then we have the "talk" again. Just an idea. GL
HA! Good luck with that hun! I've been married for almost 6 years and I still haven't figured that out. My DH has the attitude of he'll help in the evening as long as he feels I've done my part threw out the day.