The other day I asked 'does your spouse keep promising to change".. And I got the answers ranging from 'I wouldn't ask him to change' ...'I knew what I got when I marred him'..
The thing is my husband is not forth coming with oral sex. He gets into it occasionally. I tell him I am frustrated and he promises to change. This is a nice calm conversation. I don't threaten to leave him or with hold sex. I love the man. And yes btw I have a vibrator. It works fine.
My question was about change.
How to encourage, reward or give up on it? My husband has changed in many ways I know he is capable of this. Yet I still have a hard time asking him to do it. So yeah some of it is me.
Answer by tootoobusy at 10:23 AM on Feb. 16, 2011
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Answer by ItsMe89 at 12:22 PM on Feb. 16, 2011
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