My soon to be ex BIL has 4 kids and one on the way.
The first kid is 14. She's from a casual affair from when he was 25.
2nd is 12,casual affair as well.
3rd and 4th are from his marriage to my SIL(my husband's sister) kids are almost 9 and 4
He's in the process of divorcing my SIL and got his GF of 6 months pregnant. She's 20 weeks along
the guy is paying out child support to the 2 oldest,and soon will be paying for 4
What would make a woman want to be with a man who will be paying just about 75% of his paycheck to CS??!
Boggles the mind!
I told him he needs to get a vasectomy before he goes bankrupt!
Answer by lucky35 at 2:31 PM on Feb. 16, 2011
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Answer by CollinsMommy729 at 2:37 PM on Feb. 16, 2011
No. I personally would not date a man like that.
But to be fair, if I were single, I wouldn't date a man with young children period. I'm too old, my only is grown, I have no desire to raise someone else's kids at this stage of life. Nor do I have the patience or the will to deal with all the baggage and drama that comes along with a ready made family.
This guy you're describing is way way beyond anything I would date. Way way beyond.. LOL
Answer by pixie_trix at 2:42 PM on Feb. 16, 2011
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Answer by Mme.Langley at 2:55 PM on Feb. 16, 2011