I have found that I am wanting sex more than I did before.....like I hit that peak they say women get in their 30's....problem is that I a not wanting to have it with my husband. I am not saying I am getting it elsewhere, but I would sure like to. It is like dh just does not do it for me anymore. Has anyone else felt that way? It is not like I have not tried or done some different things with him, I just find myself wondering when he will be done. It is like I might be enjoying it and then suddenly I feel like he just creeps me out for no particular reason and I want his hands off me.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:07 PM on Feb. 16, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by kitchenwitch78 at 4:10 PM on Feb. 16, 2011
Answer by angevil53 at 4:09 PM on Feb. 16, 2011
Answer by peekab00 at 4:16 PM on Feb. 16, 2011
Based solely on what you have shared so far.
It seems to me, that your feelings are stemming from: issues/problems in your relationship that have long gone unresolved, and the distance that you have put between yourself and your husband. When we have unresolved issues with someone, and we know we have created distance, it's really hard to feely sexually enticed/excited and pleasured by that person.
In order for you to regain your desire for your husband, you most likely will have to: work together to resolve any unresolved issues the two of you have, and you must work together to close the distance between the two of you and reconnect on a personal level. Both work together and go hand in hand.
Answer by pixie_trix at 4:17 PM on Feb. 16, 2011
Answer by lexi8622 at 4:20 PM on Feb. 16, 2011
Answer by dusty1962 at 11:26 PM on Feb. 16, 2011